Learn how to win the ghost of the shyness: The dictionary says something as: shyness is the fear of being judged hardly. lgum that it does not want to be judged badly by the others. Based in what I read in the dictionary I tried to understand why, and after very thinking I found two reasons that I believe to be the cause of as much pain: 1. They believe that the other people’s opinions always will be negative. 2. They do not have auto-esteem fort and if they feel vulnerable. this tends to get worse when we are dealing with a pretty woman.
Because of ‘ ‘ validation sexual’ ‘. That is, ‘ ‘ If woman rejects a pretty me, beyond the bad judgment that it made of me, I also must be UGLY! ‘ ‘. to get worse the situation still more: The masculine shyness is still worse that the feminine one. A shy woman still will have faces approaching. Already a shy man goes to be alone to expect a woman (still more a pretty one) approaching. The shy ones always fantasiam a woman (of good preference one good) approaching and wanting to know on it.
But this a way is alone to rationalize the shyness. In the mind of them, they feel insurances thus why they do not run the risk of being rejected. In all in case that, this never goes to happen, nor pretty woman nor ugly woman goes to approach a man, unless this is drunk or is of itself, is not normal behavior. 99% of the women wait that the men go to speak with them. In the majority of the cases you will not only see a shy man if isolating of relationships and success in the love for the initiative lack, but also, unhappyly, why they content themselves.